This was what I loved most about the book--the way in which these women became like mother's to Lily, each in their own way. Lily was open to, and embraced their "mothering, in most cases and their relationship grew into one of patience and understanding and mutual respect. I especially loved that August knew more about Lily but let her come to things on her own, when she was ready. I also loved that Lily's perspective felt very much like that of a 14 year old.